Are You Just His Circumstance?
Last week, I broke down what it meant to be a man’s choice. When a man chooses you, he’s loud and proud about his love and admiration for you. You didn’t have to convince him- he’s with you because that’s where he wants to be.
This week, we’re digging a little deeper into what it means to be a man’s circumstance. How do you think you could tell if a man was only with you because of the circumstances? What are the signs or tells you’d look for? Let’s start with defining the circumstances.
You know as well as I do that sometimes relationships can generate a lot of “baggage.” This isn’t a bad thing, especially if you’re aligned with your Power Partner and you have the same outlook and goals. But often times, that’s not the case and many men (and sometimes women) feel obligated to stay in the relationship because of these circumstances. Children, external pressures (your church, friends and family), and shared finances can create circumstances that make it easier to stay in a relationship, not because you still want to be with them, but because of the circumstances.
But what exactly does a relationship like that look like? And what are the warning signs to look out for? I’m sharing the four ways you’ll know if you’re just his circumstance in my coaching gem below. And no, I don’t want to hear any “oh that’s just what it looks like in a long-term relationship” excuses. If that’s what your long-term relationship is giving, then you might be his circumstance too!
P.S. If my coaching gem below reminds you of your current relationship, you’re in desperate need of tlc and expert advice. Don’t wait- book a free guidance call today!