💕 April Theme: The Basics of Intentional Dating
Discernment vs. Desperation
Let me make this plain:
A lot of women are not struggling because there are “no good men.”
A lot of women are struggling because they have no intentional dating system.
They are meeting men and then deciding what they want after they get attached.
They are hoping a man becomes more serious after already giving him emotional access.
They are looking for clarity from a man they should have been observing quietly instead of trying to decode in real time.
That is exhausting.
And unnecessary.
Intentional dating means:
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You know your desired outcome
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You move accordingly
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You let time reveal what words try to hide
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You stop letting temporary feelings make permanent mistakes
Whether you are:
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Single and healing but getting ready to re-enter the dating pool
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Single and actively dating for marriage
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In a relationship and trying to discern if this is truly aligned
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Married and realizing intentionality is still required to keep love healthy
There is something in this month for you.
Because even wives need discernment.
Even wives need to be intentional.
Even wives can get lazy and start “winging it” in ways that impact connection, softness, and the overall tone of the relationship.
So no matter your season…
This month is about asking yourself:
Am I really moving with discernment… or am I just reacting to attention?
That question alone will save some of y’all six months. Maybe a year. Maybe a situationship. You’re welcome. 😌
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